These Questions will help me learn what your needs, tolerances and
preferences are so that I will be better able to tailor your session(s) specifically
for you. Please be completely honest and as open as be held in the strictest
confidence. The more you share with me, even if it's something you have
been fearful of or reluctant to talk about with anyone before, will help me in
developing and planning your session. We will also chat via E-Mail, IM
and/or phone, prior to your visit so we can get to know each other and fine
tune your experience.

Our relationship is on it's way to becoming a unique, special and close one. I
will respect you and I honestly want this to be a meaningful and special
experience for you.
When you have completed the Questionnaire, please click on
"submit" at the bottom of the page. Your information is important to
me. Give me a little time, I will contact you within 3 days of
receiving it.
Real Name:
Email Address:
City & State:
S.O. Aware?
1) Where or what position do feel would be best for your session?  (over the knees no
support, over the lap with support, over table, chair desk, touching your ankles, etc.
2) Have you ever wanted to have a witness to your spanking or another spanker involved
with your spanking?
3) Are you interested in role play, real disciplinary, therapeutic, combination or other?
4) Do you feel corner time is an appropriate part of a session for you?
5) List any implements that you have experienced and know you react well to:
6) List any implements that you might be interested in trying:
7) List any implements that you definitely do not want used:
8) How do you feel about the use of restraint during your spanking? (ie: holding your
hand out of the way if otk or actually tied over a chair or bench.)
9) Have you ever cried during a spanking? Is that a goal for you?
10) What sort of marking is acceptable? ie: red only disappearing in a short while, longer
lasting red with some possible light bruising, welts and bruising lasting several days. ( I
will not break the skin)
11) Would you rather be spanked for the naughty things (please specify) you have
actually done or just because you enjoy the experience?
12) Would you like to start the spanking with pants up/skirt down or pants down/skirt
13) Would you like to start the spanking with undies up or down?
14) Would you rather be spanked somewhat clothed or entirely naked?
15) Please understand that I will not do a long spanking over clothing, as it does not
allow me to monitor the skin properly, would you rather be told to pull your pants/
undies down when we get to that part or have me do it?
16) Do you prefer scolding before, during, after a spanking or all the above?
17) Do you appreciate cooling lotion applied after a spanking ?
18) Do you appreciate being hugged or held for a bit after your spanking, as a part of
after care?
19) Would you rather your spanker have physical contact with you (ex: OTK, lap, hand
spanking) or would you prefer no physical contact (ex: spanked only with an implement,
over furniture)?
20) Is there a particular setting that you feel would make your experience more
21) Would you rather be talked to, or scolded while you are spanked or prefer no
talking at all?
22) Would you rather your spanker be very cool, aloof, all business or more nurturing
and caring.
23) Do you prefer one swat at a time with pauses to let the sting set in or a continuous
tanning to build up the fire?
24) Would you rather your spanking be gentle, gradually building or abrupt and
immediately painful?
25) Would you rather be defiant or fearful going into a spanking
26) Would you rather be spanked exclusively on your bottom or other places could be
interesting too? (ie: back of thighs, front thighs, hands)
27) Would you rather spanking be a part of role playing, reliving an event or memory or
a response to events that have happened in reality, past or currently.
28) If Role Play is your preference, what role(s) elicits the best response from you??
29) Were you spanked as a Child?
30) Do you have any medical issues I need to know about that might affect or be
affected by our session?( Such as bad back, knees, bruise easily, taking blood thinner,
phobias... anything at all. I'm close to a hospital, but I'd like not to need it.)
31) How many times have you been spanked as an Adult?
32)Have you been to a Professional Spanker in the past? If you have tell me a bit about
your experience
33)Where did you learn about Auntie Rhi?
34) Ask any questions or tell me anything else you'd like to about your needs, your
fantasy... your spanking. Once I have these back we can talk either by email, IM or
phone, take a look at our schedules and coordinate a time for your first session. I'm
looking forward to working with you.