I specialize in Therapeutic Spanking and/or Disciplinary Spankings. I also offer
Life Coaching with an Individualized Behavior Plan tailored jsut for you. I love
working with Couples, and do Online Consultation/Direction for specific
I need to restate: I do not engage in BDSM activities with clients. My clothes always
stay on. This is not a sexual service, and any request for such will end the
session immediately and I will ask you to leave.
With that caveat in mind, if you have a need, desire, or idea about something
specific, feel free to contact me. I'll be happy to discuss it and if it is not something I
do, I will certainly let you know. I'm not judgmental until I actually have you over
my lap and the paddle in my hand. Then, I become judge, jury and...
Disciplinarian. I promise you won't leave feeling neglected....
Working one-on-one is a wonderful way to address your specific needs. I will get to
know you very well; not only your specific needs and desires, but also your
beginning tolerances, how you react at different stages, and what really works best
for you. You may be surprised at what you learn about yourself as well.
Establishing a sense of trust is very important. Please know that we will discuss all
sessions in detail beforehand, but once we get started, Your Auntie Rhi knows best.
Then, all negotiating is finished and I will be immune to pleading and wailing. It's for
your own good, after all, and we all know it will hurt me more than it does you!
Simply spanking sessions are ideal for clients who have never experienced spanking
as an adult, or just simply like to be spanked without a role play scenario. Of course,
the methods, implements and intensity will be tailored to your tolerances, which we
will be learning together during your first visit. I am very good at watching body
language, as well as the condition of the skin to judge how we are progressing, but I
also employ the, tried and true, traffic light safe word method: “Yellow" means you
are getting close to your limit, and I'll know to slow down a bit, or lighten up a little.
“Red” means stop full stop.... I will respect your boundaries and much prefer that
you use "yellow" rather than wait till you can not take any more.. If you ask me to
push them some more, I'll still be watching for your sincere limits. I do not have a
personal agenda when it comes to "how much you can take." That is a very
individual thing and you can't compare yourself to another person. If you've noticed
some rather severe looking bottoms in the Moons Over Alabama Gallery, remember
that it is what they requested and needed.
Role Play covers a variety of domestic and other possibilities. Just to reiterate, all
references to “boy/girl,” “child,” or any reference that might be thought of as a "non-
adult" is purely a term of endearment, as all clients will be 18 or over. Some times
clients want to recreate and relive an experience they have had, others wish to live
out an experience they wish they'd had. Various roles might be Auntie/nephew-
niece, Governess/ward, Babysitter/child, Mommy/son, Wife/husband,
Girlfriend/boyfriend, Teacher/student, Boss/employee, Nurse-Doctor/patient, or
maybe you deserve a court ordered spanking for some infraction. The intensity of
these sessions can be moderate to severe, but again, every individual is unique.
What is mild for you might be severe for the next person, so we’ll make sure to
determine your needed intensity. To stay in role, I generally ask: "So, do you think
have you learned your lesson???" Any tentative answer, such as anything but a solid
" Yes ma'am." gives me the indication that you can take and need a bit more. I'll still
be watching your body language and the condition of your bottom. Let me know
the journey your imagination might take us.
Therapeutic Spanking is designed to allow for the “warm glow," release of
tensions, or even the catharsis that a spanking can bring. The actual pain is not
usually the primary focus, though again, the intensity will be specific to the needs of
the individual. Some people need the pain to bring up the endorphins to reach the
state of consciousness they are looking for. Rhythmic breathing and biofeedback
techniques are employed to assist with the transition. Generally, I put on some music
or relaxing sounds during the session, as well as use specific scents to induce
relaxation and attain the desired “space.” Aftercare is more involved, as it’s
important for the client to be guided back from the experience.
Disciplinary Spanking can be indicated in a situation where a client has done
something that they do, or maybe just should, feel bad about. Taken to task for bad
behavior can be good for both accountability and motivation. Again we will set up
specifics before hand, but once we're in the session, you are going to get your
bottom tanned. Some scenarios have been: having stolen a bike when the client was
a child; texting while driving; driving under the influence; smoking too much;
drinking too much; talking hatefully to wife, husband, co-workers,or family
members; failing to meet a deadline, and on and on.
Life Coaching and Disciplinary Spankings. Some people need a bit of real
motivation and accountability for real life issues. A custom disciplinary program will
be designed both with you, and for you, to address real issues in your life. This
includes working with you to set up reasonable, measurable, and obtainable goals,
rules and/or schedules for behavior; as well as specific consequences for failing to
meet goals or breaking rules, along with rewards for positive progress. You will
report to me at least once weekly by email, phone, text, or whatever method we
agree on. At that time we will discuss how you are doing with your plan, any
immediate consequences that are needed and what you will expect at your next
visit. Some areas that a behavior plan can address are weight loss; chronic lateness;
keeping house clean; meeting deadlines at work or on home projects. Generally we
set up 7-10 goals. If the goal is far reaching, it might need to be broken up into
measurable and obtainable pieces. It's important that there are steps that allow us to
see progress, so you will be motivated by that success as well. I'll be your
cheerleader, as well as your disciplinarian. I want you to succeed...
A Behavior Plan is good for 6 months, and works in conjunction with regular in-
person visits or, in some cases, I have used online sessions when the distance was
insurmountable. The plan also provides for a specific reduction in the session rate
during that 6 month period.
Couples. I love working with couples! If you have a specific situation you don't see
outlined here, by all means drop me a note and let's discuss it. Chanes are we can
figure out a way to develop something to meet your specific needs. Here are some
instances in which couples have come to me.
A person who wants to learn to spank his/her spouse, and needs some real-time
hands-on instruction and experience.
A spouse who isn't comfortable inflicting the actual punishment, but is supportive
and/or even desirous of her husband receiving the punishment for behavior she finds
intolerable. In one specific case, the wife keeps track of goals missed or rules broken
and sends a note with the boy, when he comes to visit, pinned to his shirt. She also
inspects my return note, his bottom and then discusses his spanking when he returns
home. I have a few more who's wives email me to setup his visit and outlines the
behavior that needs to be addressed.
A spouse who wants and needs domestic discipline (spankee) may have a difficult
time communicating the intricacies of performing that discipline to his/her partner
(Spanker), even if the partner is willing to try. Having an experienced Auntie to help
explain, give a demonstration, instruction and hands-on direction can assist with the
learning curve. This can make the Spanker feel more confident, and in turn, the
spankee to have more confidence in the Spanker. This also allows the spankee to
stay in a non-directive role. That helps keep the spanking roles consistent. I would
like to add, be careful what you ask for. I have one couple who's wife stepped up so
well, he is t( some times) getting her involved, lol.
A couple might have a role play that they would really both want to participate in or
that would need a strict Auntie to set the tone.
I am also available for email, phone consultations and or Skype sessions, either on
their own merit or to augment your regular visits. When we begin to communicate,
we will go over specifically what your needs are, and discuss the possibilities more in
detail. I do NOT, however, write stories. I don't enjoy it, I'm not good at it; and
therefore it stresses me out. NO ONE wants a stressed Auntie, lol, and I don't want
you to be disappointed. Any email role play must be interactive on your part. DO
NOT send me money before we both understand and agree on the format we're
going to follow.
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